One of the ways to ascertain the favor of God on your life is that you will be attractive.
Yes, people will naturally find you and your life attractive. This kind of attractiveness is not a function of your beauty or handsomeness. It is not a function of your cosmetics or physique. It is an inexplicable radiance shining from within you. It creates an aura that attract people to you. You find people going above and beyond to help and bless you. This is such a blessing!
This same favor on your life could also make you unattractive. Are you surprised? You ask, how can the same favor that brings so much positive attraction make me unattractive? Well, that's how it works! Unfortunately, some people can't stand it. It infuriates them. It reminds them of their own mediocrity or misused opportunities. They interpret it as pride. They prefer you are in darkness or at least in a state that does not expose their own sorry state. When they see your light shining, they find you unattractive.
You must therefore be ready to be attractive and unattractive, attempting to please everyone so as to be attractive to all will require you to dim your light because some people can't withstand your shining.
Dear reader, as you journey into this year normalize being attractive and being unattractive. The two are fine.
A good friend of mine once said jokingly “not everyone will love, accept, celebrate or keep asking for more of you, after all you are not ‘jollof rice’ “. In the same vein, not everyone will hate, discourage, neglect or ignore you. Once you settle this in your heart, you will be fine and live your best life.
Don't forget, you will be attractive and unattractive. And it is okay!
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© Bisola Mogaji
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